13.03.25 Day One again - Crohn’s all over again

There’s one star in the sky that my phone is able to capture as I try to take a picture of the night sky to commemorate the day I go back into the trenches of a flare. The numbers are all bad. I was hoping the test was a fluke or that things could be managed with diet but today I got the news. New meds, liquid diet for 6 weeks, and more testing.

I am grief. Deeply sad and disappointed. I want to cry again the most. I want to weep for myself, I feel so sad when flares happen. I’ve never thought that life should be something that happens to you. You are meant to make things happen in life but there are times when life does happen to you. And this illness happens to me. 

I’ve been okay for a long time and managing for a long time, and it turn out all that managing and okayness wasn’t enough. And my heart breaks some more. It means I now have to find a new way to be okay. I am heartbroken.

I was meant to travel New York this year and make a big thing of it. NY in MaY. I was meant to be booking my flights whilst hanging out in the waiting room for my MRI scan. Travel long-distance takes its toll but I could plan around it. May is a little over 6 weeks away. And now all I can think about is “Will I even be able to eat on the trip.” I don’t even like American food. Their chocolate sucks, and I can’t eat pizza or pretzels. 

Then I think about about my plans for this month and year, how am I going to explain this to people again. Sick again. Sorry we can’t do any food related plans for a while, or anything to strenuous, or too far from a toilet, or for too long. They kind of know my condition but they’ve seen me well for 10 years. My tickets to Beyoncé and Kendrick.

Just when my life felt like it was getting normal, routine and medications down and I could do just about anything. Even go back to school. A spanner has been thrown in the works and I have to find a new way to keep going. I want to cry. I was good. It’s sounds silly. I did everything I was meant to, eat well , sleep well, stayed active, reduced stress and then and then...

This is day one. Again.

Things are about to change quite dramatically just when I was feeling normal. Truthfully it is easy to forget how horrible Crohn’s is when things are going well. I could control my symptoms and predict them. Now I like I’m heading into a dark cave with no end in sight.

This year I wanted to feel confident about going out and talking to people and make new friends. I had just learnt how to manage the fear always in the back on my mind when I would go out. I had a routine and system and now…

I’ll take my own advice because I will be okay. No matter what happens. The cards you are dealt don’t matter, it’s how you play your hand.

I’ve changed meds before. I’ve been on a liquid diet before. I will be okay